As an introduction to this tribute, I would like to remind us all that the Bible makes it clear that ‘no one knows the day or the hour’ when we shall depart from this world; nor does it make it clear how this exit will occur. This certainly applies to our beloved brother whom I assumed would live on for some time. You can imagine my shock when I received a telephone call from no other person than Ann his beloved wife to inform me that Steve had gone home after having been involved in a gruesome accident. I must confess that I could not control myself, but I quickly remembered that Ann needed my support, comfort and consolation. Now I have a duty to a beloved brother – that of writing this tribute.
Steve and Ann and my husband Richard and I have known each other for a long time – back to the days when our paths crossed in Freetown, Sierra Leone as we participated in the Christian fellowship in the 1980’s. We would sing the chorus, ‘I don’t care what church you belong to…’ with all sincerity and genuine love for one another. I clearly remember that our first child Onyinye and their first child James, played together as toddlers. We still have photographs of them playing (Ann sent me one recently). They are blessed with three wonderful, gifted children but neither Steve nor Ann ever boasted about it. We also appreciate the fact that they taught their children to be humble and trust Jesus.
Steve and Ann also encouraged overseas students especially those from Cameroon. They have continued to do so till date. I am sure his loss will be greatly felt by those of them who have gone home as well.
Steve and Ann have, by God’s grace had a happy, blessed marriage and I am convinced that with God’s help they remained committed to upholding their marriage vows. One aspect involves ‘to have and to hold’, ‘in sickness and in health’. When Ann took ill from cancer, Steve rose to the occasion faithfully. Ann became inescapably dependent on Steve who proved to be a gentle, loving, caring mate and who always put her health and welfare above everything else. Thankfully, Ann has gradually been recovering.
Steve and Ann are extremely generous. I can personally testify to that. When they learnt of my predicament of bilateral cataract and that I had been told the cost of the surgery, they volunteered to pay for one of the surgeries. In fact, it was Steve who made the transfer. How can I forget such a loving, generous couple?
Steve has gone to be with the Lord Jesus whom he loved and served, not just in word but in deed. Even though we are naturally upset about the way he exited, we are convinced that our brother joined the triumphant procession that entered the pearly gates that day. A saint has entered into the presence of the One he served faithfully. Brethren, join me in praising God.
To you Ann, the children, sister and other members of the family, may the God of ALL comfort minister to you in this time of need, bless you with His peace and mighty protection. Remember His great love for widows and their children. Richard, I and the family will continue to uphold you in our prayers.
